Why most people fail

I haven't come to criticize anyone, nor have I come to judge your past actions. But I have come hoping to convince  you why you probably aren't yet a success or haven't achieved success as you desire.

I would like to quickly enumerate some qualities of successful people:

    they are usually time conscious

    they prefer to not procrastinate

    they are always optimistic

    they cherish what they have

    they are determined

    they know what they want

    they define what they want

    they try to see the future of what they already have (vision)

    they don't hope on miracles

    they are patient

    they are persistent

    they learn to love and as well hate

    they don't stick to one idea

    they don't quit

    they are risk takers

    they may consider other persons opinions but they don't depend on them.


It's one thing to claim to possess any of these qualities, but it's another to actually possess it and nurture it.

Many of the unsuccessful people fall under the first category and in most cases don't even realize it. This scenario is even the saddest of the conditions.

Problem is, we don't even know what we want and as a result, what we may not even want (though our actions says we do want them), get a better part of us. But not yet is it the end of the journey. We fall to rise. We fail to succeed. We hate to love. We fight to win. So we must rise to succeed and simply learn from failure.

I usually love to consider determination as the greatest of these qualities. Cause, to be determined is to be conscious. To be determined is to avoid procrastination. To be determined is to be optimistic. You cannot achieve what you really want if you aren't determined.

A good knowledge to achieving success also is to know that everyone isn't programmed the same way. You shouldn't always do things because your role model or someone did it. You are not a duplicate. There is no second of you. It's just you. It takes a good understanding of oneself to reach our goals.

I usually like to end pieces like this by saying that you keep yourself from achieving what you want.
Much luck from me to you as you strive to progress.